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									<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">自很久以前，听说青年团契每年都会举办“弟兄之日”和“姐妹之日”，源由是为了鼓励弟兄姐妹发挥所长来学习彼此服事，同时也展现才艺，互相欣赏。</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">今年，青年团契把这两个节日合起来办，通过4个环节的活动，让弟兄和姐妹知道虽然很多时候男女的思维模式非常不同，但不是所有男生都来自火星，金星里也不是只有女生。</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">当天，我们玩了二选一情境题，回答了像“你宁愿世上的人变得更聪明，还是更善良？”、“你宁愿办一场盛大还是简约的婚礼？”、“他人生气时，你宁愿对方跟你冷战，还是对你大吼大叫？”等问题。另一个环节是举旗子游戏，举绿旗表示认同或可以接受另一半的行为，举红旗则表示不认同，看看自己能不能接受另一半“吃饭坚持AA制”、“每天打游戏或看剧超过1小时”或“一定要一起灵修”等行为。从以上两个活动得出的结论是：每个选择有男有女，没有出现男女对立的局面。</span></p>								</div>
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									<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">之后的第三个活动，我们将男女被分开，自成一组。大家的任务一样，就是各想两道想问异性的问题，然后先让异性写下他们的答案，最后自己也回答那道问题。女生组问了男生“婚后是否和男/女方父母住？为什么？”以及“当原生家庭有困难时，比如需要超过1万块的经济援助，另一半是否应该共同承担”？男生组问了“为什么女生总问有双关意义的问题”以及“你认为一个精心计划的盛大求婚仪式是必要的吗”？女生很快地想出了这两道问题，也很容易地回答了男生的问题；男生……想问题想了蛮久，回答女生的问题时还算快，却花了好长的时间想着怎么回答自己设的问题……这说明了什么呢？哈哈。</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">总结一下大家的答案：</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">男女生都觉得如果可以，婚后应该两夫妻自己住就好，并且共同承担另一半的家庭问题。女生不要求奢华的求婚，更不要在大庭广众下被求婚（有人写“觉得丢脸”），心意在就足矣；男生的想法有差，有的觉得简单就好，有的觉得有必要隆重，因为“要证明我们的爱是真的”，也有人说“要创造美好的回忆”。</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">女生真的会问有双重意思的问题吗？“是男生想太多。”“这是刻板印象。”“那你要更细心了！”“我很直接的啊。”所以，是怎么一回事？结果，男生自己答不上来……</span> </p>								</div>
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									<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">最后一个活动，就是大家匿名写出自己理想的另一半该具备什么条件，然后大家一起讨论，看看列出的条件是必需且合理，还是只是个人喜好，以此让弟兄和姐妹思考自己所的条件当中，是否过于理想化？</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">结束之前，陈振福传道为我们简单讲解圣经怎么看待男女之别。</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">创世记1章27节说：“<em>……神创造了他们，有男有女。</em>”从起初，男人和女人就有不同。男女在肉体上就有极大的差异。而神定意要男人和女人不同，不是要使他们彼此竞争或对立，乃是彼此互补，最终反映出神的形象。</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">比如，男人的思考能力能帮助他们看到整幅图画，而女人注重细节，使男女在计划任何活动或在讨论中能彼此互补。或许男人比较能专注地做一件事，而女人能做多项任务，那就此互补，做事更有效力。</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">男女也要彼此尊重，放下对彼此的偏见，不可自私自利，不要单顾自己的事。带着谦卑顺服的心，彼此相待、彼此肯定和欣赏，建立神所喜悦的关系。</span></p>								</div>
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		<title>彼此相顾相惜</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[彼此相顾相惜 吴丽真协理牧师 今年教会主题是“主里扎根，深化连系”。“深化连系”肯定是始于我们与主耶稣的连系，更亲近主，更渴慕主，效法主的榜样，以致我们的信仰有根有基，灵命茁壮成长。“深化连系”其次就是指我们与教会这个信心社体，这个属灵大家庭中的弟兄姐妹，相互关怀、彼此代祷、鼓励和劝勉，在日常生活中，互动联系、共享喜乐、分担难处，最重要是我们团结凝聚，彼此激励，一起经历基督信仰的美善。 想当初，戴德生James Hudson Taylor 1853年到了中国，将近两年的时间他深感气馁，当时他的差会没有守约支持他，而且早年进驻中国的宣教士批评他的非传统（新派）宣教服事；他在英国的未婚妻来信说已不再爱他，与此同时，英国领事下令他停止在某个城镇的事奉，而那是他的重点服侍工场之一。种种不顺扑面而来，对于一个身处异乡的戴德生，真是感到前途一片灰蒙。他在写给母亲的信中说：“我的心悲伤，悲伤，悲伤……我不知道该怎么办？”就在那时，一位敬虔的苏格兰宣教士William Burns（比他年长20岁）成为他的朋友。在七个月内，他们一同上路，传道和祷告。戴德生气馁的时候，William不断鼓励他。戴德生后来创立了中国内地会，即今天的海外基督使团，造就了近代宣教史上很多精彩的故事。 看到戴德生的经历，我们深知在人生旅程，弟兄姐妹彼此关怀相顾是何等大的力量，希望我们都可以在这个属灵的大家庭中，找到倾心如水的同伴，分享经历，分担忧患。许多时候， 解决困难是一个过程，但是若有一个人陪伴，吐吐闷气，相信多少也能帮助舒缓我们的心情，情况也能稍微改善。 潘霍华《团契生活》Life Together的翻译者说：人不能离群独居，因此都希望能够和别人融洽共处。为什么“基督徒能过团契生活？”潘霍华说“因为上帝早已为我们的团契生活立下唯一的根基，因为在我们和别的信徒过共同的生活之先，上帝早已在耶稣基督里将我们这些人连结成为一个身体。因此，我们和别的信徒过共同生活时，不是要求什么，乃是在于感恩和领受。”对于潘霍华来说，他形容团契就是：“透过耶稣基督，并在耶稣基督里面那一种甜美和谐的生活，我们在耶稣基督里面，彼此相属。” 我忆起一首很感动我的诗歌《深爱连系，如此福气》，是台湾音乐创作人詹宏达老师1996年的作品，这首诗歌一直鼓励着我，每一次吟唱心中就充满温暖。 《深爱连系，如此福气》深爱连系，如此福气，使我们不分离。虽然此身可能远去，仍合一在心里。灵里合一，连于首领； 走他指示路径；跟随耶稣脚踪而行，继续未完工程。永远走在他权能下，不管世界评价。无欲无求，心系一念，唯耶稣钉十架。我们一起蒙他收留，一起不疑不忧；一起安居真理之中，一起蒙主护佑。参与在救主恩典里，全心，全性，全意；无喜无悲，无时无地，无生死可分离。 回想从我15岁信主开始就得蒙上帝的恩典，信仰追寻的路上，感恩一直有许多主内长辈的教导，兄姐的关爱和带领，弟兄姐妹的包容、守望相助，他们的陪伴一直推动着我的成长；感恩从年少信主以后就融入在教会生活中，和弟兄姐妹一起探索信仰、追求真理，这样的爱和守护，是何等的珍贵和祝福。 在灵性塑造的旅程，个人独处的操练（祷告、读经、灵修等）少不了，藉此与主耶稣建立亲密的关系。其次，与信心社体的连结更是灵命成长的一大助力。基督徒受呼召进入一个互相连系和彼此服侍的关系中，除各人以自己的独特之处贡献恩赐，大家还委身在这个蒙爱的社体中，学习彼此被接纳、守望相助和激励成长。 我们祷告：愿十字架的爱连结我们，加添我们爱心和信心，好让我们乐意敞开心扉，主动与弟兄姐妹多多联系，无论是喝喝茶、一起读经、同心祷告，或是参与服事，愿我们在这个属灵的大家庭一起成长，一起体验相聚的美好。上帝喜悦我们，上帝的灵充满我们，上帝的见证就在我们当中。 基督徒受呼召进入一个互相连系和彼此服侍的关系中&#8230;]]></description>
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<p>今年教会主题是“主里扎根，深化连系”。“深化连系”肯定是始于我们与主耶稣的连系，更亲近主，更渴慕主，效法主的榜样，以致我们的信仰有根有基，灵命茁壮成长。“深化连系”其次就是指我们与教会这个信心社体，这个属灵大家庭中的弟兄姐妹，相互关怀、彼此代祷、鼓励和劝勉，在日常生活中，互动联系、共享喜乐、分担难处，最重要是我们团结凝聚，彼此激励，一起经历基督信仰的美善。</p>



<p>想当初，戴德生James Hudson Taylor 1853年到了中国，将近两年的时间他深感气馁，当时他的差会没有守约支持他，而且早年进驻中国的宣教士批评他的非传统（新派）宣教服事；他在英国的未婚妻来信说已不再爱他，与此同时，英国领事下令他停止在某个城镇的事奉，而那是他的重点服侍工场之一。种种不顺扑面而来，对于一个身处异乡的戴德生，真是感到前途一片灰蒙。他在写给母亲的信中说：“我的心悲伤，悲伤，悲伤……我不知道该怎么办？”就在那时，一位敬虔的苏格兰宣教士William Burns（比他年长20岁）成为他的朋友。在七个月内，他们一同上路，传道和祷告。戴德生气馁的时候，William不断鼓励他。戴德生后来创立了中国内地会，即今天的海外基督使团，造就了近代宣教史上很多精彩的故事。</p>



<p>看到戴德生的经历，我们深知在人生旅程，弟兄姐妹彼此关怀相顾是何等大的力量，希望我们都可以在这个属灵的大家庭中，找到倾心如水的同伴，分享经历，分担忧患。许多时候， 解决困难是一个过程，但是若有一个人陪伴，吐吐闷气，相信多少也能帮助舒缓我们的心情，情况也能稍微改善。</p>



<p>潘霍华《团契生活》<em>Life Together</em>的翻译者说：人不能离群独居，因此都希望能够和别人融洽共处。为什么“基督徒能过团契生活？”潘霍华说“因为上帝早已为我们的团契生活立下唯一的根基，因为在我们和别的信徒过共同的生活之先，上帝早已在耶稣基督里将我们这些人连结成为一个身体。因此，我们和别的信徒过共同生活时，不是要求什么，乃是在于感恩和领受。”对于潘霍华来说，他形容团契就是：“透过耶稣基督，并在耶稣基督里面那一种甜美和谐的生活，我们在耶稣基督里面，彼此相属。”</p>



<p>我忆起一首很感动我的诗歌《深爱连系，如此福气》，是台湾音乐创作人詹宏达老师1996年的作品，这首诗歌一直鼓励着我，每一次吟唱心中就充满温暖。</p>



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<pre class="wp-block-verse has-white-background-color has-background" style="font-style:normal;font-weight:600">《深爱连系，如此福气》<br>深爱连系，如此福气，<br>使我们不分离。<br>虽然此身可能远去，<br>仍合一在心里。<br><br>灵里合一，连于首领； 走他指示路径；<br>跟随耶稣脚踪而行，<br>继续未完工程。<br><br>永远走在他权能下，<br>不管世界评价。<br>无欲无求，心系一念，<br>唯耶稣钉十架。<br><br>我们一起蒙他收留，<br>一起不疑不忧；<br>一起安居真理之中，<br>一起蒙主护佑。<br><br>参与在救主恩典里，<br>全心，全性，全意；<br>无喜无悲，无时无地，<br>无生死可分离。</pre>
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<p>回想从我15岁信主开始就得蒙上帝的恩典，信仰追寻的路上，感恩一直有许多主内长辈的教导，兄姐的关爱和带领，弟兄姐妹的包容、守望相助，他们的陪伴一直推动着我的成长；感恩从年少信主以后就融入在教会生活中，和弟兄姐妹一起探索信仰、追求真理，这样的爱和守护，是何等的珍贵和祝福。</p>



<p>在灵性塑造的旅程，个人独处的操练（祷告、读经、灵修等）少不了，藉此与主耶稣建立亲密的关系。其次，与信心社体的连结更是灵命成长的一大助力。基督徒受呼召进入一个互相连系和彼此服侍的关系中，除各人以自己的独特之处贡献恩赐，大家还委身在这个蒙爱的社体中，学习彼此被接纳、守望相助和激励成长。</p>



<p>我们祷告：愿十字架的爱连结我们，加添我们爱心和信心，好让我们乐意敞开心扉，主动与弟兄姐妹多多联系，无论是喝喝茶、一起读经、同心祷告，或是参与服事，愿我们在这个属灵的大家庭一起成长，一起体验相聚的美好。上帝喜悦我们，上帝的灵充满我们，上帝的见证就在我们当中。</p>



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